Lowering The Gradients Considering The Personality Of The Woman

When we are referring to matters such as "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Can you relate to women?", I usually get asked about how to start getting physical with a girl that you have known as a pal for some time.

Getting physical is something which generally occurs naturally between a guy and a girl more than a three month period unless either of them is extremely uncomfortable on disinterested.

When a man is not comfortable with approaching a girl for a physical relationship, the main thing which a guy could do to deal with that is learn how to observe and make use of gradients.

What are gradients? Gradients are just like steps on a ladder which you climb to get to the top. A few guys might try to head to the top level of the ladder without climbing any of the steps. And that makes the girl uneasy as well as the guy.

A man who is not comfortable in this area ought to learn both how to identify gradients when women make use of them and the way to use gradients on girls.

Not every woman will begin at the same gradient. A few women will begin with a kiss after a first date, and proceed steadily or swiftly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and finally to sexual relations. If a man attempts to jump to the "sexual relations" step without going through the other gradients, he may just lose the girl. On the other hand, you may lose a girl as you are moving up the gradients too slowly.

Now other girls won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss till the seventh date. Gradients for her might be: getting to know you, speaking about sexual topics indirectly (for instance commiserating regarding an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (bumping into you while you go walking), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm while you go walking, holding your hand, and then a goodnight kiss.

If you are not comfortable with this area and want to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, notice where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then take her up the gradients gently. So long as you don't by pass way too many gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients swiftly or slowly depending on her persona.

If she is not interested, she probably won't budge. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't move up, try speaking about it. Ask her if she is interested in a relationship with you or if she only wants to be good friends.

Don't forget that most girls won't go out on a "date" with you unless of course they are already vaguely okay with the idea of getting physical with you. So you may need to make clear if you are dating or just "chilling out."

Lowering The Gradients Considering The Personality Of The Woman
Getting physical is something that usually occurs naturally between a man and a woman over a three month period unless one or both of them is extremely uncomfortable on disinterested.

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